Eloping in the Mountains: Our Story and Tips for an Intimate Wedding

Sometimes, the most magical moments are the simplest ones, where it’s just you, your partner, and nature’s beauty. For Marc and me, our decision to elope on a mountain in the Dolomites was exactly that—an intimate, unforgettable experience that felt perfectly aligned with who we are. It wasn’t just about saying “I do,” but about sharing an adventure that embodied everything we love.

The Decision to Elope

We’ve always been drawn to the outdoors, whether it’s road-tripping in our motorhome or hiking through beautiful landscapes with Bernice by our side. So, when it came to deciding how we wanted to get married, it was clear that a traditional ceremony wasn’t for us. Instead, we wanted something simple, personal, and close to nature.

The Dolomites had already captivated us during our European road trip, and we knew their dramatic mountain peaks would provide the perfect setting for our elopement. It wasn’t about keeping things secret—it was more a reflection of my own story. Coming from foster care, I wouldn’t be able to fill a room with guests, even if I wished to. So, we focused on creating a day that was purely about us and the beauty around us.

The Day of the Elopement

On the morning of our elopement, we were filled with excitement as we prepared to hike up to a special spot in the mountains. While it wasn’t the easiest trail, we were determined to make the day unforgettable. I decided to hike in my wedding dress—yes, in a dress and hiking boots! It wasn’t the most traditional bridal look, but it was perfect for the kind of adventure we had in mind.

The hike was challenging, with the rugged Dolomites as our backdrop, but the reward was worth it. The scenery unfolded around us, revealing jagged peaks, endless valleys, and the crisp mountain air. Bernice, of course, was along for the ride, happily tucked into her rucksack, her little head poking out as we climbed. She had been with us through so many adventures, so it felt right that she would be part of this special day too.

A Ceremony to Remember

Reaching the mountaintop was nothing short of magical. Surrounded by towering mountains and breathtaking views, we found a quiet spot where we could exchange our vows. With just the wind and the sound of nature as our witnesses, it was a moment of pure simplicity and joy.

There were no fancy decorations, no long guest lists—just Marc and I, pledging our lives to one another in a place that felt timeless and peaceful. As we stood there, with Bernice by our side and the mountains stretching out around us, it was everything we had imagined and more.

Tips for Planning Your Own Mountain Elopement

If you’re considering an elopement in the mountains, here are a few things to keep in mind based on our experience:

1. Scout Your Location: Make sure you choose a spot that’s not only beautiful but also accessible for your level of hiking. We spent time beforehand picking out a trail that suited us.

2. Dress for the Adventure: Hiking in a wedding dress is no small feat, so practicality is key! I paired mine with sturdy hiking boots, and it was a decision I didn’t regret.

3. Pack Smart: You’ll need to bring essentials like water, snacks, and layers in case the weather changes. Don’t forget any items for your dog if they’re joining you, like Bernice’s trusty rucksack.

4. Capture the Moment: Whether you bring a photographer or just a good camera, make sure to document the day. Our photos weren’t the most staged, but they captured the essence of the adventure.

5. Prepare for Weather: Mountain weather can be unpredictable, so pack accordingly. It may be sunny at the base, but chilly at the peak, so be ready for anything.

6. Make It Personal: The beauty of eloping is that you can make the day truly about the two of you. Whether you’re exchanging vows in hiking boots or with your dog by your side, make it as personal as you want.

A Quiet Celebration Back Home

After our elopement in the Dolomites, we returned to London for a small, intimate ceremony with just close family. It wasn’t that we were trying to keep our elopement a secret—we simply didn’t need a large guest list. Coming from foster care, I’ve never had a big family or network to invite, and that’s okay. The people who mattered most were there, and it felt just as special.

Looking back, our elopement in the mountains was one of the best decisions we ever made. It was an experience that felt uniquely ours, surrounded by nature, adventure, and the simplicity of love. If you’re considering an unconventional wedding or elopement, my advice is to follow your heart and do what feels right for you.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not about how many people are there—it’s about the memories you create together. And our mountaintop adventure will always hold a special place in our hearts.